Important Conversations to Have Before College
/Build trust, set expectations, and prepare them for independence.
Heading to college is a huge life change. Beyond the checklists and shopping trips, meaningful conversations can help your student feel ready, supported, and empowered. Here are some essential topics to cover this summer:
1. Money management and budgeting
Talk about how they’ll track spending, use a meal plan, and avoid overdrafts or credit pitfalls.
2. Academic expectations
Be clear about your hopes while listening to theirs. Discuss time management and seeking help early if they struggle.
3. Handling stress and mental health
Normalize talking about feelings. Encourage using campus counseling if they need it.
4. Using campus resources
Tutoring centers, advising offices, health clinics—make sure they know these exist and are for them.
5. Safety on and off campus
Review rules for residence halls, transportation options, and strategies for staying safe socially.
6. Roommate communication
Discuss how to navigate conflicts, share space, and respect boundaries.
7. Balancing social life and responsibilities
College is fun, but they’ll need to prioritize. Help them think about setting limits.
8. Healthy habits
Sleep, exercise, nutrition—simple routines make a big difference.
9. How and when to ask for help
Remind them it’s strong—not weak—to reach out when they need support.
10. Keeping in touch with family
Set expectations about calls, texts, and visiting.
